Why is it such a big deal to be in a fraternity? For some, it’s about hanging out with a lot of people you may like or having a brotherhood that will last forever. For others, the reason is that being in a fraternity will help them get more girls to have sex with. For some reason college girls find an attraction with a guy being in a fraternity. A frat guy has the appearance of liking to have a good time and show their girls a good time. Events such as socials, date functions, and formals all turn out to be organized parties or gatherings that end with sex between the “couple” for the night.
Is being in a frat mean that you are socially accepted my most females and thus, able to hookup or have sex with? Is sex more about someone’s social acceptance in college or about the actual act of sex? Is it more about telling people who you had sex with and how it happened or about actually enjoying the experience? I personally think that sex in college has turned into a competition between guys and other guys and between girls and other girls. Fighting for who had sex with a better looking or more fun person. Gone are the days that good sex is between a couple that has chemistry and understands the other persons body and their likes and dislikes. With all the competition thats going on, how could one really even know what their partner wants when all the worry is about who your going to tell and how they are going to judge? This game or battle is even more prevalent between fraternities to try and see which one is better. Better is judged by the parties they throw and the girls that show up to them. Said Sadiqa Thornton,” Sex doesn’t sell. Erosion of female self esteem does. The feeling of superiority over women does. Turning women into “things” to be studied and judged and then calling it “sex” does. Sex doesn’t sell. Objectification does.” This means that the judgement and the competition that was referred to earlier is what people are getting excited about now a days, not sex.